Top Dating, Mating and Relating Advice for Women:

Research Tips that Really Help from The Love Adventures of When I was doing research about the love issues of today’s women who are often smart about work but not love, I discovered while I was conducting workshops, I just wasn’t connecting. It’s a terrible feeling to know that you’re not reaching the very people you want to help—but there it was. Every time I offered explanations, many of the women sat with their arms folded across their … [Read more...]

Verbally Abusive Relationships: Top Things about Recognizing and Understanding their Impact.

Part 1 in a Series of 2 Some people wonder what could be so bad about a few harsh words every so often. After all, people might think, you weren’t punched in the face or touched in the night by family members. And that’s exactly the problem: Verbal abuse seems to many of us, well, just not that big a deal. But it’s precisely our ignorance and denial of the power of words that allow verbal abuse to seep into our feelings and beliefs about … [Read more...]

Verbally Abusive Relationships: Top Tips for Managing Verbal Abuse in Your Romantic Relationship.

Part 2 in a Series of 2. In Part 1 in this series, “Verbally Abusive Relationships: Top Things about Recognizing and Understanding their Impact,” I talked about how your partner’s verbally abusive words are attempts to diminish, denigrate and define who you are-or aren’t. Your emotional hurt from hearing these words depends greatly on the emotional importance and power over you of the person who is using those words. If you have a low sense of … [Read more...]

How to Prevent Arguments and Make Decisions with your Partner: More Secrets to Couple’s Smart Problem-Solving.

Part Two in a Two-Part Series. In Part One in this series I offered key tips about how to manage arguments with your partner. As a recap, the main tips are: 1. Expect to have disagreements. Happiness does not mean that you won’t disagree. In fact, your differences strengthen your relationship since couples tend to bring complementary viewpoints that can expand your thinking. 2. Realize that some issues may not be resolved exactly as … [Read more...]

Secrets to Couple’s Smart Problem-Solving.

How to Prevent Arguments and Make Decisions with your Partner: Secrets to Couple’s Smart Problem-Solving. Part One in a Two-Part Series. Don’t let your arguments land you in Divorce Court! All couples have disagreements, but the smart ones know how to handle their differences and avoid those ugly, heated, out-of-control fights. Below is a guide of the top tips. … [Read more...]