Yes—it is that time of year again when we vow to make important changes in our lives. I cheer for you—even if making New Year’s resolutions may not be the only—or necessarily the best—time to make them. Why? The New Year is one of those emotionally powerful dates that can motivate us. But it can also demotivate us. Here are the top reasons that our New Year’s resolutions don’t tend to hold up for very long. As you read them, jot down the ideas … [Read more...]
How to Never Miss a Relationship Red Flag Again!
September 25, 2016 By
Even people who are good at reading the behavior of others can miss those red flags that send a warning wave. Here is a list of the top reasons why we misread—or dismiss—these signals. This list is based on the solid research of others and on my research with thousands of couples over the course of many, many years. But why do we miss them? You can get better at reading people! Top Reasons Why You Miss Relationship Red … [Read more...]
How to Keep From Going Back to a Previous Relationship for the Wrong Reasons
August 10, 2016 By
Well, you say to yourself, you were young when you met. Or, one of you was going through hard times. And now you are both more mature, and no one else either of you has dated even comes close to being a good match. Oh, there are lots of reasons! For one, statistics are really against you. Okay—I know that reliable statistical information is actually a risk assessment based on a large, representative sample, and that the findings may not … [Read more...]
How to Stop Choosing a Very Wrong Partner & Choose Someone Only a Little Wrong
June 10, 2016 By
What? Am I saying that you should choose a wrong person for your love partner? No, of course not. But hang in there with me. I’ll be discussing how to avoid really choosing wrong, and choosing wisely and realistically instead. After I read author’s Alain de Botton’s May 29, 2016 article, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person,” in the Wall St Journal, I thought about my research findings about love. He makes very important points. I will … [Read more...]
How to Keep From Falling for the Top Dating Myths
March 11, 2016 By
Even the most seasoned dater can end up falling for one of the top dating myths — and not be aware of it! We may not know the origin of each of these beliefs, but ever since at least the Middle Ages in Europe, the intensity of falling in love and the longing for someone are with us now. Here are some top tips about why you shouldn’t fall for certain dating myths — and how to prevent acting on them. This advice is based on the solid research … [Read more...]
