Part 3 of a Series: What to Do on First, Second and Third Dates Okay—you’ve made it to the third date. Yes—that third date which somehow in the United States and possibly other countries—signals that you should or could have sex. I have no idea where or how that idea got started, but please don’t heed that advice. Think about it. If you haven’t done so already, do you really want to take off all of your physical and emotional clothes, and … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: What to Do on a Second Date
Part 2 of a Series: What to Do on First, Second and Third Dates Second dates might mean second chances—which is often a good idea, but second dates usually mean that you are both interested in spending time with each other. If you did not spend your first date by just hanging out with friends or strolling flea markets or attending casual, community events such as boat or home shows, then I highly recommend that you do some kind of … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: What to Do on a First Date
Part 1 of a Series: What to Do on First, Second and Third Dates If you’ve ever looked for advice about what to do on a first date, you’ve probably received lots of advice: Make it romantic. Make it memorable—get impossible-to-get-tickets to something that makes you look special. Make it exciting. Bring a gift. Go to an amusement park. Confused? These tips make me think of the scene in the movie “The Wizard of Oz” where the Scarecrow … [Read more...]