Most women have been emotionally hurt in love, but not all of them have shut down their hearts to men or the idea of falling in love again. The smart women in my study didn’t blame the man for everything, nor did they build defensive walls. Strong and secure women have no need for armor. I’ve been doing research on women’s issues on love and work for several years, and I’ve learned about how their missteps in love turn them into pessimists. … [Read more...]