When I counsel women and give workshops and talks about women and love, one of the top questions is, “When should I have sex in a new relationship?” I usually ask the women in the group to give their advice, and their suggestions range from “whenever you feel like it” to “when he says ‘I love you’—and acts like it!” So, how do you know which end of the continuum of answers is wisest? Your mind is probably jammed with too many of the “should” … [Read more...]