I’ve been asked many times questions such as: What are the top things women should do if they are looking for true love? What should women know about finding a caring and respected mate? In my research of more than a thousand women, I learned many surprising things about how to get smart about choosing a man wisely. If I absolutely had to pick just one thing, it would be this factor: Know You! It sounds so easy—but it’s not. Knowing, … [Read more...]
Executive Dating Advice for Successful Women: The Danger of Work Affairs
April 5, 2013 By
So you and your colleague and teammate won the Big Deal Award. You deserved it. You spent many nights together at work, ate food that came wrapped in paper, let your make up smudge, and your hair go flat. You felt comfortable enough to yawn, really sneeze, take off your shoes, and eat food with garlic. You let your personal problems seep through your moods and conversation, and you sparked him to do the same. You made a great team—the way … [Read more...]
Elite Dating Advice for Women: Avoiding the Regret of Sex Too Soon
March 29, 2013 By
When I was doing research for my study about the love and work life of today’s successful women, I wasn’t surprised that the issue of when to have sex with a new partner was one of their top questions. What did surprise me was how many women regretted having sex too soon—or at all with some of their dates. I was curious and concerned why this resolve failed. I discovered a few key reasons and solutions. Of course, this list can’t cover all … [Read more...]
Elite Dating Advice: The Dangers of Being Unhappy
March 19, 2013 By
One of the more dangerous states of mind for women is being unhappy with life, love, and work. Chronic dissatisfaction can lead to depression, diminished sense of self-worth, emotional cowardice, obesity, substance abuse, and suicide attempts. In my study of more than one thousand women and their dating and mating experiences, I learned that the women with high-profile, high income careers often had a very difficult time recovering from … [Read more...]
Dating for Professionals: Get Mindful of Being Carried Away
March 11, 2013 By
When I was doing research for my book about women, love, and dating for professionals one of the top questions that the women asked was: “How do I think with my head and heart?” The question stemmed from regrets about falling in love too soon and too blindly. In the cartoon below Cookie is on a second date with Joe. She hasn’t had a date in a very long time because she got so hurt that she avoided any possibility of making a mistake. Can you … [Read more...]
